I just finished watching the new Nancy Drew movie (I know it’s a kids movie, but why do I always learn my most valuable life lessons from kid’s movies?). It was everything Nancy Drew should be, with a mystery, excitement, danger, and 50’s clothing. What struck me most about this movie, and I would venture to say what struck most people, though was the fact that no matter what, Nancy always does the right thing. We tend to watch movies like that and brush off the warm fuzzy feeling we get when Nancy sets the world right as just that, a feeling. I would like to contend that it is much more than just a feeling. It is a desire that we, as a culture, have buried so deep beneath excuses, despair, and apathy (and dare I say laziness?) that we have forgotten what it was entirely.
I find myself constantly making excuses for not doing what’s right. “It won’t benefit that person, it will only cause trouble, I need the money, they’ll get over it, it’s actually funny”. On and on. And to my shame, most of the time it is that last excuse, the weakest of them all. Time after time, everyday we are presented with situations where we are asked to, no, where we need to do the right thing. It is time that we dare stand up like the strong people we are and do the right thing. It is a quality we admire so much on film and in story books, but then seem to despise in real life. Shame on you.
Let me be the one to tell you, because I realize how often I do it myself, your excuses are worthless, petty, and a disgrace. They are not amusing nor do they benefit anyone alive, except perhaps yourself. We need to make a conscious effort to stop this! It is a disease that has plagued us for so long that outside of stories we refuse to even recognize what the right thing is! However, thanks to stories, and a deep down, inherent knowledge we know exactly what the right thing is, all we need to do is throw out the self benefitting excuse and do it.
Taking the wrong change is wrong, lying is wrong, stealing (no matter how small or from whom) is wrong, driving faster than the posted speed limit is wrong (even though everyone does it), cheating (whether it be on a test, on homework, or on your wife) is wrong. When will we realize this and live up to the potential that we are born with? Nancy Drew is a child’s story, why is it children are so much more intelligent than we are that they can recognize these things?
I feel like I could cry at my inability to communicate the importance of this and how deep the disease runs. Next time you watch a children’s movie or read a story book, examine yourself against the heros and heroines in the tale. Note how many times they do the right thing when you would have done the easy, or self serving thing. Please, this is important. Do not be deceived by our culture. The only difference between real life and a storybook ending are the choices we make regarding the right thing. Most stories do not end with a prince and a castle, but rather a true friend, a strong passion, and an ability to always do the right thing. Thank you Nancy Drew for reminding us that not only is doing the right thing possible, but it is necessary.